Hmmmm…

Posted on 26th April 2011 in Kinky Life

So for a while I’ve been thinking about posting a picture on HNT. But I’m not too sure about taking, let alone posting, semi-nude pictures. Thoughts?

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Erotic Reading Challenge

Posted on 20th April 2011 in Erotica, Kinky Life, Odds N' Ends

Love reading erotic stories? Love reading author interviews and book reviews? Surf on over to The Forbidden Bookshelf to join the 2011 reading challenge, read an interview or book review.

Kinky Identity

Posted on 3rd April 2011 in Kinky Life, Submission

In her list of submissive journal prompts, lunaKM asks whether I identify as a slave, a submissive, or something else and what my definition of that identity is. That’s a great question and one I have not fully answered yet. The simplest response is that I’m evolving.

As a bit of background, my husband and I only started practicing kink about a year ago. I had kinky thoughts and desires most of my adult life, but had not “come out” to anyone. After twelve years of marriage, I thought it was time. So I asked him what he thought about spanking me. He did. We both got amazingly aroused. And so on and so forth.

At first I thought we’d switch. I never thought of myself as a bottom or a submissive. In my day to day public life I’m assertive and actually have to have control of many situations. But, oh how wrong I was.

I’ve learned over the past year that I’m at least a ¬†sexual submissive to my husband. I’ve also learned that practicing kink takes more trust than anything else I’ve ever done. I’ve learned that my easy going, happy-go-lucky, mild mannered husband is quite the Dom in the bedroom, and very slightly sadistic. Mmmm…shiver!

What really surprises me is that I’m slowly coming to understand that I like being submissive more than just in the bedroom. I’m not anywhere close to ready for 24/7, but as I explained to him yesterday while we were shopping, sometimes I just don’t want to think-don’t want to make decisions. I want him to do it. Not because I can’t, but because I love that feeling of being cared for, of being protected. I love that look on his face when he’s proud of me or when he’s showing me off. I love the power that he gives off when he’s in Alpha Male mode.

So, what is my kinky identity today? I would say I’m sexually submissive to my husband, with overall sub tendencies. My definition of that identity is that I love to please him, love to see his eyes light up when he’s happy, love for him to take me and make me unmistakably his.

How do you define your kinky self and your relationship dynamic? Have you evolved since the beginning? Have you surprised yourself along the way?

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Ebay Fetish

Posted on 27th March 2011 in Corsets, Fetish, Shopping

Just won this corset in an ebay auction. Woo Hoo! And y’all know I’ve got some hot, hot, hot shoes to go with! ;) Black PVC Corset

I never thought to look for fetish wear on Ebay until I read the article “Building Your Fetish Wardrobe on a Budget” on Submissive Guide.

I won two more corsets tonight. Got three corsets for less than $75 total, including shipping!

Ebay has some great fetish wear and lingerie. Some of it’s a little pricey, but there’s some great stuff ¬†that’s very reasonable.

Here are some pictures of the other corsets I bought today.

Can’t wait to get them and play dress up! If I get really brave, I might, stress might, put a couple of pictures of me wearing them on here. But I’m not promising, okay. You know, privacy and all that. :D

Now to find some opera gloves…

Whew! I’m Back

Posted on 24th March 2011 in Odds N' Ends

Been away for a bit. Netbook was stolen. Had the flu. Busy at work. But hopefully I’m settled down a bit now.

Got some new shoes on the way-that should make me (and Sir) feel a whole lot better! :)

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Restless

Posted on 13th February 2011 in Odds N' Ends

After more snow and near record lows earlier this week, today is sunny and 66 degrees! Woo hoo!! But it sure makes me restless and gives me spring fever. Gotta get outside.

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Waiting for Sir

Posted on 12th February 2011 in Fetish, Shoes

To continue the theme of shoes, here’s a pair of boots I bought last week:

Sir loves them. Wish I could’ve taken a picture of the way his eyes lit up when he saw them on me. Makes me even more of a shoe ho-love, love getting that reaction from him!

Is there something that gets you going-either wearing it or seeing it on your partner? Shoes? Sexy lingerie? Does he love seeing you in one of his business shirts? Or one of his ties? (I’m giving myself ideas here…)

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Becoming a Shoe Ho

Posted on 11th February 2011 in Fetish, Shoes

I confess. I’m becoming a shoe ho. Which is odd, because I’ve never really been into shoes until the past year. I love this pair:

Wouldn’t they look great with a pink or blue corset? Or a black fishnet body stocking? Mmmm…getting lots of ideas.

These shoes are from TUK Shoes. I think it’s my new favorite shoe site.

Here’s another pair from TUK that really gets me going:

Where’s your favorite place to buy shoes?

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Hello world!

Posted on 11th February 2011 in Uncategorized

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